Embracing the Journey to an Authentic You — The Magic of Anticipation
Jul 17, 2024![](https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/blogs/2147506624/images/5c280c5-4243-8d60-65e-13e2d6bdf7e_Blog_Post_Announcement_.jpg)
There's a magical charm in the anticipation of a journey, and as a lifelong traveler, I feel this deeply. But beyond exploring new destinations, I've found the most rewarding part of a journey is discovering my authentic self while I dream and plan. Ever since I watched "The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants" in 2005, I’ve wanted to travel with friends or solo and exchange stories of our adventures. Greece, one of the girl’s destinations to discover her heritage, has been on my bucket list ever since. In the movie, four best friends share a mysterious pair of jeans that fits all of them despite their different sizes, keeping them connected while they spend their first summer apart discovering themselves. This tale beautifully explores stepping out of your comfort zone and finding yourself without the constant presence of your closest friends. As I prepare for my upcoming adventure, I'm reminded of the power of change and anticipation in uncovering who we truly are.
A fascinating study by Cornell University found that people are significantly happier while planning a trip, even if they might not actually take it. The anticipation of a vacation contributes to happiness more than acquiring physical possessions. This suggests that the benefits of traveling – and personal growth – start long before the journey itself. Imagining the possibilities of who I can become fills me with joy and excitement.
Why does change make us so happy? Research supports the idea that changing our surroundings can significantly boost our well-being. Experiential diversity – the variety in experiences – has been shown to enhance happiness in both animals and humans. Using geolocation tracking, experience sampling, and neuroimaging, researchers discovered that daily changes in physical location are linked to increased positive feelings.
Trying a new hiking trail, beach spot, or mountain retreat where you can challenge yourself, meet new people, or experience new cuisine can bring a sense of renewed vitality and happiness. It's not just about grand adventures; even small trips can have a profound impact. But how do you figure out the right direction? Here are a few tips to help you achieve your travel dreams:
- Embrace New Experiences: Travel is more than introspection; it's about embracing new experiences and seeing the world – and yourself – from a fresh perspective.
- Identify Your Excitements: What excites you about travel? What are your passions?
- Start Small: If you're new to traveling, begin with smaller trips to ease into the experience.
- Set Goals: Define what you want to achieve with your travels.
- Choose Your Companions Wisely: Pick travel companions who are up for the adventure and share your interests.
As I count down the days to my next adventure, I'm reminded of the power of self-discovery to uplift the spirit and enrich the soul. Whether it's a grand international trip or a simple change in your daily routine, embracing new experiences can bring joy and fulfillment. So, here's to the journey – to the anticipation, the exploration, and the memories waiting to be made. Here's to discovering the authentic you —find your denim!
It’s about the journey, not the destination
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